Christmas was kind of a big deal at my house growing up - and I "may" have continued that tradition with my own kiddos :) We always had a lot of gifts - and we wrapped EVERYTHING - each pair of socks, each gag gift etc... so there were always lots of presents under the tree :) Presents from Grandparents, Aunts and Uncles, from each brother and sister, mom and dad, Santa, Frosty - you name it :) And it has always been so much fun :) Of course my joy has mainly been from watching my kiddos unwrap those special gifts that we shopped so hard to find, or that were special requests that we told them we couldn't fulfill etc...
Last year - the Bigger Sissy convinced all the kids to give up ALL their Christmas presents and go to Disneyland instead. They all agreed, and on Christmas day, we didn't have a single present under the tree. They did, however, get some sweet goods from Santa and some fun stocking stuffers. And - our trip to D-land, our last vacation of just us and our kids before the BIG wedding days - was priceless - we had such a great time. I am soooo grateful that the Bigger Sissy had such a great idea.
So - when it became clear to us that we were supposed to add Fiona to our family, we knew that this Christmas would have to be a small one. We already knew we needed to cut back due to the weddings and multiple college students and the restructuring of The Dad's year end bonus with his company - but with the added in expenses of our adoption, we went into extreme savings mode - and with that mode came a restructuring of Christmas gifts. The Dad has been trying to get us to go to a 3 gift Christmas for years - after all - how many gifts did the Wisemen bring the Savior? Yup - 3 :) I realize there are so many children who don't even receive 3 gifts - and that was made all the more apparent to me this year, and I think there will be permanent Christmas restructurings for us in the future to be more cognizant of the needs of others. It is definitely a good thing.
So - we prepared our kids - had them make a list of things that they need, things that they wanted, and somethings to wear, read, or play. We then looked at their lists and picked 3 things - 3 things that weren't big or flashy or expensive. And - to be honest - the kids were very mindful of the current happenings and they are all so excited to bring Fiona home - they were happy to sacrifice. There wasn't one complaint about the small number of gifts under the tree, or the fact that they couldn't pick something expensive or big or on the top 10 list for Christmas this year. Their eyes have been opened just a bit to the world outside - to the needs of others and to the plight of the many orphans in the world. And it's not that they are selfish kids - they really aren't - they, like their mom, just hadn't opened their eyes to a lot of things - they lead fairly sheltered lives. We have lots of friends who have adopted - from foster care, from orphanages in China, Russia, Ukraine - but reading about it, is not quite the same as having it truly touch your heart. And this year - it is that much more real for all of us - and that is without actually seeing it up close and personal - I don't think our lives will ever be the same once that happens.
Now, my sweet Mom - who loves Christmas with all her heart (and it may just possibly be a genetic trait passed down from mother to daughter.....) wanted our Christmas to be fun and special, even though we wouldn't have many gifts to open - so she put together a bunch of different bags/gifts that involved different games and contests, and maybe a resounding rendition of the 12 Days of Christmas (which might happen to be one of Littlest Dude's most favorite Christmas songs ever - he particularly loves the FIVE GOLDEN RINGS part ;) So after we went through a gift round (we open from youngest to oldest, one gift at a time ;) we would do a game or contest :) It was so fun :) My family loved it - and the Bigger Sissy's husband may or may not be a little competitive with The Rocket Scientist ;) so it made for some fun games :) I'm pretty sure all the games were won by the 3 oldest children :) much to the disappointment of The Dad and The Princess ;) Good thing Littlest Dude and I aren't the competitive type :)
A great time was had by all - and a lesson learned - Christmas isn't about the presents :) but about his presence - and HIS presence was felt so much by all of us, through the gifts of love that you bestowed upon our sweet Fiona, those were the BEST presents we received this year!!! Our hearts are just full of Christmas.
Here are just a few pictures from our special day - thanks for making our Christmas the most memorable one to date!!!!
I have always wanted one of these nativities from Germany - when we were there this last summer we were able to get one - this was it's first time out of the box - so special!!!
Our Christmas eve spread :) When I was growing up we had chicken noodle soup by candle light, but The Dad is not particularly fond of boxed chicken noodle soup - so we started our own family tradition of lasagne :) We kept the cheese and crackers and candlelight part though :)
The Bigger Sissy's husband looks good in pink - hey????
The Princess made her own angel halo :) She was in charge of our pageant this year :)
Littlest Dude as a shepherd and The dad as the donkey - and a one eared donkey at that ;) Oh well - you work with what you have - right???
Mr. Hollywood as a Wiseman :)
Grandma as the narrator :)
The Dad as the Donkey ;)
The Bigger Sissy and her hubby as Mary and Joseph :)
Grandpa as a Wiseman :)
and - because he is just so cute - I had to add in this one - our little shepherd sure does love his Grandpa :)
Riding in to Bethlehem :)
Littlest Dude just had to be with Mary and Joseph ( but mostly the baby Jesus) before his turn came up - but hey - I think maybe all the shepherds did :)
So - the angel was a little thrown off - but she did just fine :)
Our little shepherd just adores babies - real and not so real :)
he couldn't resist giving our baby Jesus a kiss.....
and after it was all over - a dogggggg pile!!!!!! and our little present parade (where we put them under the tree :) and our Christmas jammies from Grandma :)
Our highlight of Christmas Eve though was a visit from some wonderful friends! They came and caroled to us and brought an amazing gift for Fiona. Their extended family chose her as their Christmas project and gave us an amazing donation to help bring her home!!! Thank you so much!!! That gift of love set the tone for our Christmas - and was just one of many gifts of love we received for our sweet girl. Our hearts were overflowing with each gift we opened for this precious little girl - she is loved by so many already - how lucky she is (and we are) to have all of you in her life.
The Princess was up early on Christmas morning - but couldn't convince the rest of us to get out of bed til Littlest Dude got up :) I think she may have finally woken him up :)
Full House - how did Santa know she is a fan of 90's sitcoms?????
Lucky Charms? What every well rounded teenager wishes for in his stocking :)
See the JOY on Littlest Dude's face? Crackers - his wants and desires are so simple and sweet! (he has been sick :( when he gets colds/sinus infections his little face gets all chapped - thankfully he is on the mend now!!!)
A little birdie mentioned that Bigger Sissy's hubby likes Chips-ahoy cookies :) Simple wants :)
The Rocket Scientist emailed me with this want - an old game cube game - not available new - used including shipping - for under $20? Such a blessing!
The Dad makes the perfect elf - don't you think? We love our matching elf hat - thanks Aunt L!!!!
Ultimate Frisbee for Mr. Hollywood :)
Snuggies for all from Grandma - and singing the 12 Days of Christmas? I think this may become our newest family tradition!!!! :)
Sisters :) Love these two :)
Christmas was a day full of blessings for our family - the blessing of being together (we really missed the Biggest Sissy and her hubby - but I guess we do have to learn how to share ;), the blessing of having our Grandma and Grandpa with us from Canada, the blessing of having a warm house, clothes to wear, and food to eat. The blessing of having the knowledge that our savior, Jesus Christ, was born, lived on this earth, atoned for our sins, and gave his life for us, so that we can live with our Father in Heaven again. The blessings of all of you, and your amazing outpouring of love and support for Fiona and our family. We are so blessed! Merry Christmas all - may the spirit of the season stay in your hearts all year long!!!




